semua orang ada temporary feelings.

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I often fall in temporary feelings. Because of long term of loneliness deep inside my heart.

Macam mana yang dikatakan temporary feelings? Bila someone new yang kau kenal dalam kehidupan kau and you become so interested with him. Itu dipanggil temporary feelings. Teori dia macam ni. Bila kau beli barang baru. Kau sangat excited mula mula masa pakai. Bila dah lama lama tu kau akan rasa bosan. Semua orang macam tu kan? Baru je beli barang baru sangat excited sangat teruja mula mula sampai satu hari satu malam explore barang tu. Bila dah lepas 3 - 4 minggu terus bosan dengan barang baru tu. Faham teorinya?

[Tumblr]: That's why we often called our temporary feelings as crush.

Aku tak nak panggil temporary feelings is a love. Temporary feelings is more to suka. Suka dengan cinta lain tahu? Kau suka dia. Kau suka kawan dengan dia. Sebab dia sorang sahaja yang baru muncul dalam kotak hati kau. And that's the problem. Temporary feelings ni kau hanya rasa kepada seorang sahaja. Susah nak pindahkan kepada orang lain. Jadi kau akan avoid untuk berkenalan dengan orang lain. Ya temporary feelings boleh berubah kepada orang lain tapi it will takes a lot of time.

Sekali you fall with temporary feelings dah susah nak merangkak balik bangun semula dari this feelings. Macam biasa it will takes a lot of time untuk kau surpass the temporary feelings stage. Tapi if you surpass pun, nanti lepas kenal dengan orang baru it will happens again. We can't actually control our feelings towards a person. Kalau nak jadi, it will happens. That's the problem.

I even scare with my feelings bila dealing with temporary feelings. I am not unsure about my feelings. I do like him. Kalau berdasarkan suka sahaja memang hubungan tak akan bertahan lama lah. Sebab itu nak jadikan perasaan suka menjadi cinta is too hard. But most of the time perasaan suka akan jadi suka sahaja last last dan tak akan berubah kepada cinta sebab when time goes this temporary feelings will gone too. Dan akhirnya perasaan kau terhadap orang tu will be back to normal.

[Tumblr]: Fikir sampai masak masak sampai dah cukup rasa baru buat keputusan untuk kapel ok? It might be only your temporary feelings.

Temporary feelings also occur masa kau baru lepas break up. Kau senang suka kat orang lain sebab kau lonely. You are lonely and you needs someone just like your past to care about you. But dear, this is not the way are. You will hurting someone else heart too if you decided to have a relationship with him after short term of break up moment. Just give your heart a space. It's okay to be in long term single moment. That's nothing to be ashamed of. And remember don't try to flirt with someone else if you still have a feeling to your past ex.

How to deal with temporary feelings?

It's never easy to deal with it. Nak halau perasaan yang dah sebati dengan jiwa is too hard to do. Trying to knowing someone else it's not a good way because you already have a crush on him. And you can only see him in someone else eyes. Biarkan sahaja temporary feelings ini dalam hati kau. Lama lama nanti when times goes, it will gone. Dah nama pun temporary. It will gone sooner or later.

So, good luck in surpass your temporary feelings :)