Of Queen Control and Self Respect
Relationship was built upon a lot of weird foundation One of the weird foundation is trying too hard on holding back gracefully. Although you're suffocating inside. Actually, holding back is good. Holding back means you're respecting the foundation of the relationship you've built upon and willing to give and take although sometimes you'll realize that you're giving in too much. But as a human, we were built with limits. You have to understand and put a benchmark to your limits. Tolerating is good. I even encourage friends and family to tolerate relationship because relationship means endurance, a marathon, not a sprint. But someway somehow, you might want to look back and let your partner play their part carefully so that your self-respect is well preserved within the scope of your own relationship. Those people who's suffering from queen control usually is less dominant in nature. Maybe they're adapting or leading the life of a pacifist. Whatev...