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Of Queen Control and Self Respect

Relationship was built upon a lot of weird foundation One of the weird foundation is trying too hard on holding back gracefully. Although you're suffocating inside. Actually, holding back is good. Holding back means you're respecting the foundation of the relationship you've built upon and willing to give and take although sometimes you'll realize that you're giving in too much. But as a human, we were built with limits. You have to understand and put a benchmark to your limits. Tolerating is good. I even encourage friends and family to tolerate relationship because relationship means endurance, a marathon, not a sprint. But someway somehow, you might want to look back and let your partner play their part carefully so that your self-respect is well preserved within the scope of your own relationship. Those people who's suffering from queen control usually is less dominant in nature. Maybe they're adapting or leading the life of a pacifist. Whatev...

The Perks of Loving a Brilliant Girls

Ehlo. We meet again. I'd love to start this piece of articles with Be Careful. As y'all know, terdapat banyak jenis perempuan yang telah sejak azali dia stereotype-kan oleh kita, kami, anda, kamu, dan semua orang. Bimbo, successful women, nerdy, club goers, study-sampai-mati girls, the responsible one, the irresponsible, the i need your attention girls and all. If you love challenges, you can start by hooking up with them, brilliant girls. I'll sum up my article today in numbers. 1. Brilliant girls tend to have their own say, their own words n action although someway somehow they want us to guide them. Most of the times, they don't need anyone else who's not dominant enough, to tell them what to and what not to do. But still, even if you have the upper hand on them, you'll have to consider a lot of things. You can't catch a tiger using your bare hands (if you know what i mean). 2. They also have this egoistic thingy happening in them. If you t...

kalau perempuan, adat lah malu-malu.. tapi kau lelaki kan?

Imej
lelaki kau pandang mata perempuan yang kau suka dalam-dalam dari mata kau boleh baca hati perempuan yang engkau suka jangan tunggu perempuan confess bertuah lah kalau perempuan nak mengaku dulu kalau kau tak cakap yang engkau benar suka, perempuan tak akan tahu ingat telepati ke boleh baca hati masing-masing, siap berdialog hati ke hati? lelaki cakap tau cakap yang kau suka.

Konferen Laki Bini #1 - Perempuan Kuat Mengomel

Imej
Baru-baru ini, adalah juga aku duduk berbual dihidang capati di pagi hari. Aku jarang jadi akak firma kerajaan yang duduk melepak jam 9-10 pagi dengan forum tidak rasmi. Cuma hari tu aku tak ada mood nak jadi pekerja cemerlang. Biasalah bila akak-akak duduk berkumpul, cerita kegemaran kami takkan lah tentang buah dada amoi Pertama Complex atau pun kaburetor motor. Paling remeh pun mesti lah tentang resepi sizzling me. Tapi hari itu, aku buka topik tentang perangai sendiri; apabila dealing your life dengan satu lagi hamba Allah yang bernama Suami. Soalan aku; KAU KUAT MERUNGUT/ MENGOMEL tak? Nita seorang setiausaha yang luarannya memang seorang yang lembut. Pakai tudung. Baju comel bunga-bunga. Kulitnya putih. Senyumnya tersipu-sipu. 3 tahun aku kenal dia, dia bukan jenis setiausaha yang suka pokpekpoepek macam makcik karipap. Sifatnya yang pemalu lazimnya menggegarkan jiwa jejaka seperti Asyraf Muslim atau jejaka stok Imam Muda misalnya. Tapi dia jawab macam ni; “Mesti la. ...