27 Julai 2012

Moving-on.

  This is a motivational entry. Not an angel or a perfect man tryna give sweet things for you to be floating on air. In order to motivate, we had to be in it, to have faced it. It's like been there, done that.

  Moving-on phase comes after fucked up phase. You have to be fucked up to be ready to move on. We all agree, moving-on isn't easy. Hey, you don't deserve the one life Allah has granted just to weep forever. Get up and seek happiness. Life is worth more than weeping all your sadness. Yes, it's easier said than done. Well, being negative will just give you none.

  Moving-on doesn't really mean you're getting a new one. Yes, it might work or it might just worsen. You might just fail again. Three easier-said-than-done steps of moving-on are, forget, walk on and open a new path of life. You have to remember, people can always support and teach you how to move on, but you have to help yourself first. Trust yourself that you can do it. Redha, other than staying calm and positive is one hard thing to do while in moving-on phase. However, that's the key. Accepting Allah's fate, is the key to move on.

  The cold truth is, nothing beats the feeling of successfully moving-on, either with or without a new partner. What makes it even sweeter is the existence of a new partner (could be friends or family) helps you to be a much better and stronger person. That's what we call, you have got to lose badly to be paid handsomely. When you finally manage to move on, that's when you realize you can actually love someone else and commit too.

  The art of moving on is don't try too hard to erase. Instead, write new story.

15 ulasan:

Ichigo chan berkata...

"move on"
yeah, okay. if i couldm i would. :)

Tanpa Nama berkata...

@Ichigo chan you have gotta to lose badly to be paid handsomely. Totally agree! Have experience it before and now, really thankful for the "handsome" reward.Percayalah..apa yang terjadi..semua ada hikmahnya.

Tanpa Nama berkata...

beautifully written.

oh, been there done that, never better since :)

cik anon berkata...

siyesly....bce entri ni buat aku rasa nk nanges...kena redha n move on dear me!!!!

Panda Mata Lebam berkata...

Thanks for this saudara.
Haih. Gotta move on!

LELAKI INI berkata...

terus bersemangat!!!

miza kimbum berkata...

thumbs up ! i totally agree with what your write.

AsyieqiN Rkey berkata...

am I really moving on if I already forget how to be "in relationship with someone?"

Suri berkata...

i'm move on and i know it.

yeah.

Tanpa Nama berkata...

how about move on from someone you really love who was just using you to forget his ex yet he still remember her ? It's rebound relationship and that guy is your first love pula. Kawan kata, biar karma kenakan dia balik tapi diri tak sampai hati nak biarkan orang lain buat macam tu dekat dia. Rasa sayang sampai tak rasa marah pun. Should you wait for the guy ?

Awan berkata...

*you've gotta lose badly to be paid off handsomely

intan berkata...

#nowplaying stop crying your heart out - oasis :')

Maria Menado~ berkata...

betul. bila dah start move on baru korang tau apa rasanya. "The past let it be past"

۞мŘ╬äҖŽĽäŊ۞ berkata...

write anew on top of the old one? ain't do any good..

Asyraf (Scoot) berkata...

"move on" is really hard
walaupun stakat nieh dah masuk 5 kali dah ~.~