This is a motivational entry. Not an angel or a perfect man tryna give sweet things for you to be floating on air. In order to motivate, we had to be in it, to have faced it. It's like been there, done that.
Moving-on phase comes after fucked up phase. You have to be fucked up to be ready to move on. We all agree, moving-on isn't easy. Hey, you don't deserve the one life Allah has granted just to weep forever. Get up and seek happiness. Life is worth more than weeping all your sadness. Yes, it's easier said than done. Well, being negative will just give you none.
Moving-on doesn't really mean you're getting a new one. Yes, it might work or it might just worsen. You might just fail again. Three easier-said-than-done steps of moving-on are, forget, walk on and open a new path of life. You have to remember, people can always support and teach you how to move on, but you have to help yourself first. Trust yourself that you can do it. Redha, other than staying calm and positive is one hard thing to do while in moving-on phase. However, that's the key. Accepting Allah's fate, is the key to move on.
The cold truth is, nothing beats the feeling of successfully moving-on, either with or without a new partner. What makes it even sweeter is the existence of a new partner (could be friends or family) helps you to be a much better and stronger person. That's what we call, you have got to lose badly to be paid handsomely. When you finally manage to move on, that's when you realize you can actually love someone else and commit too.
The art of moving on is don't try too hard to erase. Instead, write new story.