Everyone used to have a bad relationship.
You and me, we both share something in common. We used to have a bad relationship (or few bad relationships). We never knew, did we ? We never knew it would end up that bad. Well, everyone has had a fucked up relationship. That's part of life. When I say 'everyone', that doesn't necessarily mean every single one of 7 billion human beings on the planet. I mean, most of us.
Failed relationship(s) hurt especially when love was involved. You know, heart and trust share the same thing; they are fragile. That's why when our love relationship failed, we were heartbroken. Heartbroken is one of the most damnest feeling in the world and yet it is cure-able. Yea, you can say, it is easier said than done. Well, why won't you believe ? Trust yourself. It will heal. It only takes some time, sooner or later. All I know patience is virtue. And yes sometimes it could kill you. Remember, people can say nice things to you but you are your own motivator.
You might ridicule me as on what degree should you trust and believe what I say.Well, believing is an option. I ain't that perfect too. I had my falls just like you. Now, we were heartbroken but we might have different unfortunate stories. The truth is, we felt what we suffered was way more painful than others. No one could ever understand what we endured at that moment. As if, no one beats our story. Trust me. There's always people who were less fortunate than us and they still survived ! Shouldn't we be a bit grateful ? Why won't we look at those who've successfully moved on instead of still looking at those who were like us, still being stubborn ?
Moving on isn't an option. It is an obligation. Some people like to see you at rock bottom all the time but you can't be like them, seeing yourself there. Don't you think it's pathetic ? I know it's freaking hard to move on and be calm. Give yourself some respect. There are plenty of other excitements waiting for you in future. Nevermind what has passed. Mind what is in store for you in future. Trust yourself and one day you'll be saying. "Who would have thought I've come this far. The bad past is history now."
And by that time, you'd be proud of yourself. And you'll even smile at how foolish you were.