25 Jun 2012

Everyone used to have a bad relationship.

          You and me, we both share something in common. We used to have a bad relationship (or few bad relationships). We never knew, did we ? We never knew it would end up that bad. Well, everyone has had a  fucked up relationship. That's part of life. When I say 'everyone', that doesn't necessarily mean every single one of 7 billion human beings on the planet. I mean, most of us.

         Failed relationship(s) hurt especially when love was involved. You know, heart and trust share the same thing; they are fragile. That's why when our love relationship failed, we were heartbroken. Heartbroken is one of the most damnest feeling in the world and yet it is cure-able. Yea, you can say, it is easier said than done. Well, why won't you believe ? Trust yourself. It will heal. It only takes some time, sooner or later. All I know patience is virtue. And yes sometimes it could kill you. Remember, people can say nice things to you but you are your own motivator.

          You might ridicule me as on what degree should you trust and believe what I say.Well, believing is an option. I ain't that perfect too. I had my falls just like you. Now, we were heartbroken but we might have different unfortunate stories. The truth is, we felt what we suffered was way more painful than others. No one could ever understand what we endured at that moment. As if, no one beats our story. Trust me. There's always people who were less fortunate than us and they still survived ! Shouldn't we be a bit grateful ? Why won't we look at those who've successfully moved on instead of still looking at those who were like us, still being stubborn ?

          Moving on isn't an option. It is an obligation. Some people like to see you at rock bottom all the time but you can't be like them, seeing yourself there. Don't you think it's pathetic ? I know it's freaking hard to move on and be calm. Give yourself some respect. There are plenty of other excitements waiting for you in future. Nevermind what has passed. Mind what is in store for you in future. Trust yourself and one day you'll be saying. "Who would have thought I've come this far. The bad past is history now." 

          And by that time, you'd be proud of yourself. And you'll even smile at how foolish you were.


16 ulasan:

AsyieqiN Rkey berkata...

i wish i could punch him damn hard like dat...teheheh

keli menari berkata...

Macam nak tumbuk dia jugak camtu.Huhu

Khairul Akmal berkata...

eh3, bukan semua lelaki macam dalam gambar ni ye. =.=" aisehman.

TheBentPencil berkata...

cis, terasa sat dgn gambar tu. betui tau.

SUDUT MATA SAYA berkata...

move on and keep move on.

reenapple berkata...

let's just be happy with all that bad things... more u think more u get hurt.. =)

moots berkata...

find new one. and let the gone be by gone.

Rokiah Wandah berkata...

nahhh here's for you ! haha

Tanpa Nama berkata...

A nice one.. Very interesting!! Some ppl are fast to heal some takes time.. Ooo..let gone be by gone.. ;)

gadis melayu berkata...

hahaha.. alasan yg paling famoz ntuk mntak clash.. huhu..

Tanpa Nama berkata...

I used to have bad relationship and I am still in a bad relationship. I, sometimes think that one common thing between him and I; how bad we are in relationship.

YES, it hurts, it's painful, heart and the whole body are aching because of this damn thing.
BUT..sometimes people tend to forget that bad things / bad relationship teach us lots of things such as patience.

i am still in a bad relationship and i think that...no matter how bad the relationship / situation in the relationship is; sometimes it is what strengthen the love between two people.

Nur Syahida Hassan berkata...

sungguh aih. besa lah putus cinta tuh. sebenarnya masa mula buat keputusan nak bercinta tuh lagi dah kena bersedia untuk segala kemungkinan. tuhan bley bagi dan Dia bley amek semula hak Dia. amek masa tapi jangan sampai nak mourn lama lama sampai tak bley move on macam apa g. buat teruk bley. agak agak lah.

ayen =D berkata...

"And you'll even smile at how foolish you were." owh, suka sangat, setuju sangat =)

JackRipperz berkata...

28 Billion people in the world is wrong. It's 7 Billion.

To be exact, the prediction of the world population is to be at 7,023,324,899 as of 1/7/2012

Kalau Malaysia, 29 Million.

Source :

World Pop : http://www.census.gov/population/popclockworld.html
Malaysia Pop (Check population clock, main page, centre right) : http://www.statistics.gov.my/portal/index.php?lang=en

fiza mohamad berkata...

interesting ~~moving on is not an option,its an obligation

fara ferry berkata...

"you're to good"? Phewww..