5 September 2012

Long distance relationship.


 Distance, is a thorn in this kind of relationship. It could also be a sweetener, depends on certain factors. Long distance relationship (LDR) is only for the tough: those who can turn the hurt of missing each other into a sweet feeling.

 The core of a successful LDR is trust. However, trust is like glass, it’s fragile. When you choose to have LDR, you don’t only give your heart, but trust comes in as well. However, trusting each other isn’t a license to flirt around or having scandal(s).  Trusting each other comes with respect. Even though he/she doesn’t see you, you still have to respect the relationship. That’s the art of any relationship; respect.

 Long distance relationship teaches you the sweetness of missing each other. As much as missing each other is sweet, it hurts too in distance. The point of being in a relationship is to be with each other, through rain or shine, blizzard or hurricane, at all time. Therefore, when you are separated (by distance), missing him/her hurts. In this kind of age, distance is just plain numbers. We have technology to cure. We have technology to kill the distance.

  Technology helps to cure, and technology too can be useful tool to track dishonesty. So, if you're in LDR, respect is the most important thing. Then, you can love and trust each other so the relationship can last to the next level.

 Not everyone suits LDR. You can either ask yourself whether you suit it, or you can experience it on your own. But, relationship shouldn't be an experiment. The other side will suffer. You don't wanna hurt or be hurt, do you ?

*all deserved credits go to www.phdcomics.com. This is clearly neither mine nor Terfaktab's.



*Our (past) experience may vary. So does our view.
  

19 ulasan:

Norashiqin Kamaruzaman berkata...

sayang isteri tinggal2 kan...lebih prefer LDR =) sbb nye.. rasa rindu lagi memuncak dr hari2 jumpa nnt cepat muak....hikhik

Macy Humaira berkata...

thank you. :))

Maria Menado~ berkata...

you're so true.

SOFIA VY NIN berkata...

One LDR believer here (^_^)/

cik fara berkata...

been there once.hate it.huhu

fifie berkata...

Masih LDR. Sudah berlangsung hampir 2 tahun, alhamdulilah tak ada masalah besar lagi.

Jenggong berkata...

LDR ke SDR ke semue same je..bende tu actually x pengaruh ape2 cz couple tu sendiri yg patot lead hubungan mereke ke arah mcm mane..sweet ke brutal ke..yg penting due2 understanding n loving to each others n everything will be perfectly great..

mish eden berkata...

LDR ada benefit and seblknye..mcm aq skang student and now intern kt jb. bf plak kje kt kl..since aq intern aq bz..p bf aq lg2 bz..aq admit kdg2 bergaduh sbb dy xblh luangkn mse utk aq..rindu 2 mmg tahap gaban la. utk hlg rindu slalu la wc ke on cl ke or msg..lucky kteorg berdua asl dr tmpt y sme..so if masing2 free blk kg then dating je kt kg...

so moral value di sini, byk kaedah or cara nk gune bl LDR utk mmbolehkn hub korg long lasting..y penting sabar, percye n setia :)

saya berkata...

been in LDR since 2006 until now....insya'Allah 2/11/12 bakal naik pelamin....doakan kami!..(^_^)

uchica berkata...

yup..thats true..but sometimes..its gonna hurt more than smile..depends on our mate..kena banyak sakit baru boleh bahagia...=)

Fara Aisyah berkata...

Enough said! Thank you! ♥

Nora Lee berkata...

dulu LDR. setia gile kat die. n taw2 die ade org len blkng ak. skang kteorg daa clash n rupe2nyer die x leh LDR nie. ummmm

Niza Romli berkata...

bila nk update cerita Hannah...

Isaac Ismael berkata...

baiklah. saya akan update.

syafa tahir berkata...

been there. its difficult when there is no trust. it's harder when they don't know to appreciate n loyal. ^^

Len Inouie berkata...

LDR.. no issue for me. haha...
It shows that relationship isn't all about face and physical. Respect, trust commitment.

It will not be boring as long as you have the momentum.

moonera89 berkata...

pernah terlibat dlm LDR selama hampir 4tahun... tapi at the end berakhir juga. bila akhirnya tiba-tiba si dia cakap yg dia tak boleh nak beri komitmen lagi. after 4years being faithful and then tiba2 cakap tak dpt bagi komitmen? I was like, wth??? hmmm... tp aku redha dan bersyukur dgn apa yg berlaku.. aku anggap semua ini kerana Allah nak lindungi aku dari terus berada dlm hubungan haram yg tiada pengakhiran jika diteruskan... Alhamdulillah, moga Allah akan terus pelihara aku dari terlibat dalam cinta sebelum nikah. Aaminn..

kaisara KHAYLA berkata...

I was in LDR too before. 1 year and 2 months. Then my ex mtk clashed. The reason he gave me is totally unacceptable. "we have been closed to each other for three years. Setahun berjauhan sgt menyakitkan n i cannot have de same feeling like before." What?? Padahal die dh jatuh hati dkt kwn office die sndiri. Mmg die jenis clingy betul.

yunZatie berkata...

i've been LDR for 5years until now. there is sweet n there is suwey. Erghh. Doakan untuk kami.