5 Beautiful Things After Marriage (actually more).
This piece of write up suits
everyone, not just to those who are just married, but to you who have years
married, about to get married or not yet married. Here are 5 beautiful things
after marriage.
1. You can date every day.
During dating years, when both of you were an item, you felt
that you never had enough of dating time especially if you were in a Long
Distance Relationship (LDR). Even though you were in Short Distance
Relationship (SDR), you can’t be meeting every day too. But, you wished to see
her/him every day. There were always obstacles or restrictions like money,
distance, work, study and etcetera. Now, the vast difference after marriage is,
you can date your partner every day, in truth, 24 hours a day! In halal way some more! That is the
beautiful part. Every moment after marriage is a dating moment. Every moment
with her/him is a moment you will cherish all your life. How wonderful. You
date in the kitchen, in the car, at every restaurant you go, every place you
set your feet on and basically everywhere.
2. She/He’s by your side all the time.
That was what you wanted before and you duly got. You might
have complained that you never got enough of her/him. It’s the burning love
during dating period that makes you feel greedy. You wanted her/him by your
side, through the shine or rain. Now that you are married, he/she’s all yours. No
doubt about it. There’s always a listener to your stories, a listener to your
wrongly-pitched singing, a listener to your dreams, a listener to your daily
reports, there’s always a counselor to your problems, there’s always hand to
hold, there’s always a shoulder to cry on, there’s always a friend to be crazy
with, there’s always a fighting mate (not the one with real punches and kicks)
and most importantly there’s always a sleeping partner, literally.
3. She’s the cook, he’s the helper.
Cooking together, as a husband and wife is another beautiful
thing after marriage. Don’t underestimate it. It might get a little dirty and
messy but that’s the way it is. It might not be the most popular but it is
certainly romantic. It is okay if you’re not a great cook or you are a great
enemy of the sink (because maybe normally you just hate to do the dishes), just
do it together. It makes the process even more romantic. Trust me. This can
also be applied to other household chores, like doing the laundry and cleaning
the house.
4. Share every moment together
During dating years/months/days (depending how long you
dated), you basically share moments together too. But not all moments are
shared. At times, you dealt with certain things alone, or with your friends and
family. But after marriage, every little or big moments are shared together.
That is just beautiful. A moment as small as celebrating birthdays or watching
movie together is even more priceless after married. And nothing beats the moment
seeing your baby coming out to see the world for the first time. That is just
an indescribable feeling you’ll ever get. The feeling of being parents is
second to none.
5. Halal sexual intercourse.
Need more explanation to this?
Ulasan